What Are You Good At? Episode 3: Passion or Money?

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Welcome back! I am so glad to have you here! This is episode 3 of 4 of my series “What Are You Good At?” We are 75% of the way complete with the series! But today will possibly be the deepest episode of all. Today I am going to discuss is your “passion” your sole purpose, or is it fueled by money? I know! I know! Why would you start a business without the financial aspect being in mind? I get it. Things are expensive, the cost of living rises every day. Especially right now with the COVID-19 shitshow still in effect.

                If you have been following this series, I have mentioned many times that if you are passionate about doing something, you will do it regardless of what you get paid. Or even get paid at all! In following successful people, you find a lot of crazy stories about their beginnings. Many famous entrepreneurs who found their passion lived in their offices because they couldn’t afford rent on an office and apartment. Steve Jobs, Dan Pena, Elon Musk have all slept on the floor in their office at one point and time. Jeff Bezos started Amazon in a garage. They had their passion, they didn’t get paid to do so (at first), but they made it work! So let’s find out if your “it” is what will make you the next top entrepreneur.

Part 1: How Bad Do You Want It?

This is me, spending hours researching and drafting episodes of my blog & podcast. Not stressed, just focused!

The reason that Jobs and Bezos, Musk and Pena, were able to keep going is because they were truly passionate about their “it” and it didn’t matter if they were getting paid or not. I will use myself as an example here. When I wanted to start my reptile business, not only did I not get paid to do the first few parties I did, but it actually cost me money! I have living creatures that I had to feed, house, and care for. For those that do not know, reptiles are not simple to keep at times. You have to have perfect balance of heat and humidity which requires a heat source, usually ceramic heat emitters (running usually between $15-$40), and substrate (I use ReptiChip which is about $25 per large bag).

                Besides basic husbandry, of course my animals have to eat. With 10 snakes and 4 lizards, 2 of those lizards being larger breeds (Savannah Monitor and Gold Tegu), it costs me about $80 per week to feed all of my animals. Then before I had to care for the animals, I had to purchase them! My first snake was $29, but the enclosure and set up for him costs $200. My most expensive snake was my Reticulated Pythons, which I paid $600 for my female Titanium Tiger. I know, I’m rambling again. But my point is, I was a few thousand dollars in the hole and still to this day haven’t made a penny. But I continue to do so because I am so passionate about it.

                In the last episode, I mentioned that I came to the conclusion that my reptile keeping and reptile show took the backseat as a hobby for myself as it led me down the road to my sole purpose as a life coach for people like me. Which gave birth to this blog, my podcast, and my life coaching business. I have had 2 clients so far, that I did for free. I did this for a few reasons.

  1. I am passionate about helping people and I didn’t care about the money.
  2. Referrals and word-of-mouth are the best forms of advertisement.
  3. To prove to myself I could do it!

Even as I write this blog, I don’t get paid to do so. But I love it! I don’t know what I would do without it. I genuinely want to help people.

        So think about your “passion.” It is what you love to do. Could you do so for free? Every Entrepreneur and business does it. My favorite show is The Office and a quote from Oscar Martinez comes to mind. Season 5, Episode 21: Two Weeks

        “Most companies don’t turn a profit for at least two years. And even then the profit margins are razor thin! Best case scenario, you don’t cut yourself a salary for at least five years. Can you go five years without a salary?”

        I know, it seems dumb to use a quote from a fictional television show. But it’s true. You could go an extended period of time where you don’t make any money. You may have to work a job on top of building your business, only get between three and five hours of sleep a night, sleep on someone’s couch, get a roommate, or even worse, live in your car. It sounds crazy, but if you research, a lot of big named executives and Entrepreneurs lived in their car!

        So the question you have to ask yourself is: Are you passionate enough about your “it” to sacrifice everything? How bad do you want it? Are you “passionate” simply because someone else has made money doing it? Take some time and think about this! This is your life!

Part 2: How To Make Money From Your Passion!

Don’t freak out! Don’t give up on your dreams! I don’t want you to think “Well I can’t do that!” Because you can. Ask anyone who started their own business if the sacrifice was worth it, and they’ll tell you yes. Even if their business failed. Because what is failure? Failure is a life lesson! A mistake to build from and create something new. Something better. Something stronger.

        So let’s look at this. You’ve found your passion. Your “it.” How can you monetize this? Well, here’s something crazy! And this is what I am doing at this particular moment. Hit the internet and share your knowledge! Now, from experience, I will tell you. Don’t try to “Gary Vee” it unless you have optimal time. I tried and stumbled hard. I did it wrong. You can read more about this in my article “Failure: Now What?” I have found so much joy in this blog and my podcast. I have found this to be a great start!

        For this blog, of course, I use WordPress. It is so easy to use and completely customizable. I continue to add to the blog site and customize as I grow. For my podcast, I use the Anchor app. Anchor is so easy to use. You do everything directly from your cell phone. Record, edit, distribute, and share! I found this to be great compared to spending hundreds to thousands of dollars on studio equipment and a better laptop. To start out, it works, and it works great! Again, I do not get paid to do this at the moment. Thanks to you, the person reading this, I am one step closer to achieving my goal in my business.

So as much as I have researched, attempting, and succeeded, here is my list, in order, of how you can begin your journey to starting a business:

Step 1: Start a Blog. Write articles about your business topic. It doesn’t matter what it is! Write about what you know, what you learn, and share articles or references you have learned from.

Step 2: Start a podcast. I know it seems scary. I am not a fan of my own voice, and I was blessed with a face meant for radio. But recording a podcast is basically you sitting in a quiet room, talking to yourself, and recording it. I love it! I find it fun and I feel I have already grown since I started.

anchor.fm

Step 3: (Get ready for it! Because this is a big one!) Start a YouTube channel! I will admit I was nervous as hell and I am still nervous when I do YouTube videos. But everyone has to start somewhere. YouTube continues to be a massive plus for anyone. It doesn’t matter if you have no followers. Every great musician and band starts out playing empty rooms.

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXMjqlTk_9BBLVYD6ysCVEg

(This is the link to view my YouTube channel. Nothing fancy, simply shooting videos about what I know with my cell phone and sharing it with the world!)

Step 4: Hit social media! You can use your personal page, or create an all new page for your business. I created a Twitter, Instagram, Facebook, TikTok and LinkedIn page. (Follow me! All of them are @rythereptileguy)

        This will give you a great start in your business! Put yourself out there. The more content, the easier it is to get followers! More followers=higher chance of monetization.

Part 3: Entrepreneurship vs. College

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I have said it a million times, and I’ll probably say it a million more. I have spent my life from age 18 to age 29 trying to make college work. Our entire lives, college and higher education is pressed into our minds that we will not be successful if we don’t have a college degree. This is not the case for Entrepreneurs. In fact, it is the opposite for us! That’s right, us. We are the exception.

        For Entrepreneurs, we can find our own education. Bear with me, I’m going to use a dirty word here! We have to READ! Ugh! I know! Reading. I have learned more from $7.00 books I got from ads on Facebook than I learned in any college course. As a matter of fact, one of my idols and role models once told me “If I had to choose between telling you to spend $10,000 on a piece of paper and telling you to read 40 books, I’d tell you to read 40 books.” I won’t name drop who told me this, but I will tell you he is a successful entrepreneur with a multi-million dollar business and very successful podcast.

        So, let’s look at the math.

An associates degree (which in most professions is almost obsolete now) costs around $20,000+

A Bachelors Degree (In some professions, going down the path to obsolete) costs $40,000+ depending on your college/university.

So you go in debt with student loans, get your degree, and IF you use it, get past up by someone for the job of your dreams because they went to a “better school”. Notice, I said IF you use your degree. I couldn’t count on both hands and feet the number of people I personally know who have a degree and don’t work in that field. Years, money, and memories; wasted for nothing.

Now, let’s flip the tables here! Again, bear with me! Let’s say you take this road. You are going to be your own boss. Own it. Say it with me, I AM a successful business owner. Come on, say it like you mean it!

You purchase 40 books a year for 4 years. The average price of books I have seen are $5-$20. So worst case scenario, you spend $20 per book.

40 books X $20 each= $800

On top of your books, you enroll in a course, taught and created by someone you know has what you want. These courses can be quite pricey. Let’s just average these courses at $3,000 each. You enroll in 2 courses a year.

2 courses X $3,000 each= $6,000

From those 40 books and 2 courses, you feel confident enough to launch your business and start getting clients. You read continuously, produce content, and get clients. After a $6,800 investment and working your ass off, your business brings in $1,000,000. A million in your first year! It can be done. It happens all the time. How many people do you know with college degrees that make $1,000,000 annually? Not many, if any! I sure as hell don’t know anyone.

See how that works? I firmly believe that if we would stop pushing something like college education, and start implementing more programs to teach Entrepreneurship, in twenty years college would become almost solely obsolete. Of course with the exception of doctors, nurses, lawyers, etc.

“But Ryan! Without a college degree, I won’t be able to get a job!” Is what most people have told me. Which is correct. But do you want to get a job, or create your own legacy? That is what we are talking about here.

In conclusion, I will leave you with a few questions to think about. Journal through them! Journaling has become a big part of my life. So here are your questions of the day:

  • How bad do I want to own my own business?
  • What sacrifices will I have to make to make my dreams a reality?
  • How will these sacrifices pay off for me/my family?
  • Who has created the life that I want that I can use as a mentor?

As always, thank you so very much for taking time out of your day to read my blog. You are appreciated more than you know! Leave me a comment if this helped you in anyway! And thank you so much for all of the love and to all of those who followed my blog! Share me with your friends, family, etc. Until next time, It’s gRYnd time so go get it!

What Are You Good At?

PART I: PASSION VS. PHASE

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Good morning everyone and welcome back to the blog! I have taken a break from everything as you can see from the date of my last entry but I am back at it! Although I have not been posting entries to the blog or doing my podcast, I have still been reading, learning and preparing for my return as well as other projects.

The COVID-19 quarantine has been the craziest thing I have ever lived through, to date, but a quarantine away from the world turned out to be exactly what I needed. I have had a lot of time to think and grow, and today we are starting a new series! What Are You Good At? This series will be an in-depth look not only of what you are good at, but why? We will also dive in to whether what you do (and hopefully love to do) is truly your passion just another pastime. I know, I don’t know you, what you do, what you like to do. However, I have studied a lot about human behavior, the mind, mindsets, and entrepreneurial aspects.

So here we go! Today will be our first dissection with is what you love to do truly a passion, or is it just a phase?

What Do I Mean By A “Phase”?

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The dictionary defines phase as:

  1. Any of the major appearances or aspects in which a thing of varying modes or conditions manifests itself to the eye or mind.
  2. A stage in a process of change or development.

I understand the first definition may be found as confusing but for this particular topic, it works. When a person is experiencing a “phase” passion (We will call it that) it is because they have seen something or know someone that has manifested itself into their life. For example, A “phase” I went through myself! My family and I love “Arrow” the CW television series that follows Oliver Queen, also known as, Green Arrow (obviously). After watching the show and watching them time and time again use hacking to save the day, I decided I wanted to pursue a career in Information Technology, focusing on Cybersecurity.

I did hours upon hours of research into labor and statistics, current job postings, and job growth predictions. After a few months, I enrolled in classes at my local college in pursuit of my degree. My first semester was amazing. I blazed through the classes and aced them. I felt on top of the world! But one thing haunted me. Each time I would talk to my wife about my career choice, it always led to “Just think of how much money I’ll make when I have my degree!”

Eventually, in my second semester, it occurred to me. “Am I chasing this only because of the income the job provides?” Not to say this is a bad thing, but for me it didn’t seem right. I have been called many things in my lifetime, some rightfully so, but I have always prided myself on not being a “dollar chaser” as I call them. So, I dug deeper within myself. Was I really willing to go in debt in student loans just to find I don’t want to do the job? Or even worst that I hate it? I found the answer to be no. Regardless of how large the paychecks would be. Would I love to stop bad people from stealing people’s identities, money, and security? Maybe. But I couldn’t take the risk of selfishly doing what should be a selfless career for money.

So, ask yourself these questions:

  1. Why do you do what you do?
  2. How did you find that you are passionate about your career choice?
  3. ARE YOU passionate about your career choice?
  4. If tomorrow you found you would no longer get paid to do your job, would you still do it, free of charge?

I get it. We all need to support ourselves and our families, so that last question is silly. But if you are truly passionate about something, you would want to continue to do so regardless. Even as I write this blog entry, I don’t get paid to do so. But through years of self-discovery, I found that I am passionate about helping people, teaching and inspiring, and writing. A lot of people do not know this about me, but I am actually a published author. I have been writing ever since I could put a pencil to paper. I self-published my novel on Amazon. It wasn’t successful from a sales standpoint, but it was one of my greatest achievements and I am damn proud of it.

How Can I Tell If It I Am In A Phase?

So by now, you may be starting to doubt yourself. Maybe not, but just in case I want to say that is not my intention. My intention is the same as always, to inspire others to look within themselves and discover their passion. So please, do not doubt yourself. If you feel doubt, think long and hard about why. Why are you doubting yourself? And how do you know if your current “passion” is really your true passion and purpose, or if it is just a phase?

                I’ve touched on this briefly in section 1, but now we are going further in depth. So hold on tight! Let’s say you are an accountant. And I personally want to say more power to you because math makes my head hurt! Anyway, you are an accountant. You make a great salary, you help people like me who couldn’t balance a checkbook to save their life, and you love what you do. You go to work every day, 9-5, living the American dream! What do you do when you go home? Do you go home and jump on balancing your finances, work on financial investments? If you do, congratulations you have found your passion!

                Let’s say you don’t, however. You go home, and to burn the stress and headache of the day, you go out to the garage and woodwork. After a long day at work, you spend yet another few hours crafting and maneuvering the wood into your own personal masterpiece. Your stress melts away, and a smile stays on your face. As you leave the garage, you’ll say something like:

                “Why can’t I do this for a living?”

                “Back to the real world!”

                “I have to get in the shower and get to bed for work tomorrow!”

                Sure, there is no guarantee you personally say something along these lines, but you may have thought it at some point in the past. Now, just bear with me a moment, let’s say the next day you had the realization you could woodwork for a living! People do it every day. So, day-in and day-out you sit at your desk chair, dreaming about woodworking. You draw some doodles on a scratch piece of paper in your spare time. Your passion for your “day job” is practically gone. Why? Why is this happening to you? I’ll tell you why! Because you may have accidentally stumbled across your true passion. Your sole purpose in life! Could you make a living woodworking?

                Ask George Nakashima. George Katsutoshi Nakashima was an American woodworker, architect, and furniture maker who was one of the leading innovators of 20th century furniture design and a father of the American craft movement. In 1983, he accepted the Order of the Sacred Treasure, an honor bestowed by the Emperor of Japan and the Japanese government. (Wikipedia) He did so through woodworking. If you are interested in woodworking or learning more about George, you can visit the website below:

www.nakashimawoodworkers.com

                I know I went on a bit of a rant, but I promise I meant well. The point is, whatever you do in your spare time, would you rather do that every day than your job? If so, I ask you to explore! Look within yourself. Experiment! Because anything is possible! If you need coaching or want to know how you could turn your passion into a money-making, bill-paying machine, feel free to contact me anytime! I would love to share my knowledge and help in any way!

                So now, if this is you, you have come to the realization that your job is not your true passion. If it is not, let’s dive into the next section and put your passion to the test!

Why Do You Love It?

We have covered what a phase is, and how to tell if your “passion” is just a phase in your life, now let’s dig a little deeper! WHY do you love what you do? So I understand that in today’s economy, a lot of people are forced to do jobs they dislike or downright hate. I have been there as well. I have done everything from security guard to printing wallpaper. I honestly can say I despised going to work to print wallpaper. Yes, some prints were beautiful and in some aspect art. However, I couldn’t help but think, “How am I making the world a better place printing wallpaper?” I tried to tell myself that I was bringing beauty into the world. But when was the last time you personally looked at the wallpaper in an establishment? So that didn’t work. So the only plus to the job was the pay. I didn’t love it, but I tolerated it for 2 years simply because of the income.

                Many people find ways to tolerate their job, or even possibly love their job.

  • Their co-workers or team
  • Pay
  • The scope of their position
  • Helping people

Once you can combine all of these things into one, and comfortably live your personal life doing so, congratulations, you may have found your passion. If through this self-discovery, you have found that your job is truly your passion, please continue to do so! And if at all possible, inspire others!

Ask Yourself!

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So in conclusion, I’d like to ask you to take five to ten minutes and ask yourself these questions. Really dig deep!

  • Am I truly living my passion?
  • Am I stuck in a phase?
  • How do I know it is/isn’t a phase?
  • Why do I love what I do?
  • How do I impact the world?
  • Could I take my skills and knowledge and become my own boss?
  • Is that something I want?
  • Is there something I would enjoy more than what I am doing now?

As always, I greatly appreciate the support for my blog, podcast, and YouTube channel! If you haven’t and would like to, subscribe to each for inspiration and motivation. You can also follow me on social media! Please let me know in the comments what you think of this entry and if you have found you are truly living your passion! Love to everyone!

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